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Never Let Your Enemy Define You, Period

February 26, 2013

A recent incident related to a good friend of mine, Alex, inspires me to write this. He was mistreated by an arrogant and rude co-worker last week.

Alex should not let his enemy define him. So does everyone!

When talking about the enemy, it should not be limited to a person. It could be a bad habit, a situation or a mindset.

Your enemy feels good when he/she/it has a sense of controlling and manipulating you. But you should never back down. Be careful though, revenge or violence is just a trap set by your enemy to prove that you are a total loser. To fight back, you need to find a win-win solution and don’t hold grudges.

Remember to walk away is also an option too. Life is not simply about win or lose.



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